the price of secrets and the importance of honesty | all the way around the sun by xixi tian

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First-generation Asian American experience stories will always have my heart and this one was no different. Navigating life after the death of her older brother, Stella is terrified of going to college. With her family orbiting each other life ghosts in their grief, the family's move to sunny California feels like another attempt to separate themselves from the reality of their loss. In attempt to help her submit college applications, Stella's parents enlist the help of her childhood friend Alan to take her on a tour of the UC schools - the only issue, Stella hasn't spoken to Alan in years and the last time they saw each other left their friendship in pieces. 

published September 30th, 2025 - 304 pages

That starting paragraph might be a bit too dramatic, especially that last line. In all seriousness, All the Way Around the Sun delivered on everything that I was looking for based on its synopsis. We get to explore so many of my favorite themes in young adult stories from childhood friendships, mending parental relationships, the strength of familial bonds, and of course, the Asian American experience. 

With him, I always found some way to say yes.

This was initially pitched to me as being perfect for fans of Ann Liang's Never Thought I'd End Up Here and if you loved Leah and Cyrus, you're going to love Stella and Alan. They have the same childhood friends arc that ended in misunderstanding and are given a second chance at friendship in their high school years. With Stella and Alan, the memories of their childhood highlight their comfortable understanding of one another - something that even years apart couldn't erase. I loved how respectful Alan was despite all the misunderstandings, how he admitted his errors and how he sought to prove his steadfast dedication to Stella even if that meant giving her space.

They went to America so you could have the type of life you want. As long as you are working toward that life, you are not wasting their efforts.

Of course when talking about the college application process, you also have to discuss the cultural weight of parental expectations and this novel dealt with it so gently while still being incredibly realistic. We have Alan's father who is very much your traditional strict parent and then we have Stella's parents who do their best despite the bumps in the road. I always love these stories because it makes me want to hug my parents a little tighter and also reminisce about my own childhoods spent with my grandpa in Taiwan. The feeling of knowing where you came from and where you grew up as a child versus the concept of the American dream can feel so incompatible and stressful, but this was a gentle reminder to stay true to yourself and take one step at a time.

All the Way Around the Sun has officially joined my list of YA novels I wish I had read when I was a teen because it would have helped my past-self's inner turmoil so much. However, reading this as an adult is just as healing because at least these stories are now accessible for the next generation.

I received an e-ARC from Books Forward in exchange for an honest review - all thoughts are 100% my own!

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